Our History

Annette Oltmans and Johanna Tropiano, co-founders of The MEND Project, each experienced personal and institutional abuse. Each were in marriages where the Primary Abuse of domestic violence, overt and covert, emotional or physical, had been an everyday struggle and reality. When they reached out for help, their trauma became exacerbated by the Double Abuse of certain friends, family members, counselors, and church leaders who either refused to believe them or responded with judgment, ultimatums, incorrect therapeutic treatment, or patriarchal demands. This Double Abuse pushed each of them into oppression, isolation, and hopelessness. What helped give Annette the validating clarity she needed was seeing Double Abuse occurring simultaneously to a minor aged child close to her. For Johanna, reading and hearing about parallel experiences of others that resonated with her own, illuminated the truth of what she had been suffering. Each involved with International Justice Mission, one professionally, the other as a donor, they were contemplating cultural blind spots supported by Double Abuse occurring throughout the world. Over coffee, they questioned, “Who Is Confronting These Blindspots Here At Home?” Through their response to each others’ stories, The MEND Project was born. Realizing that healing takes place through strong connections, The MEND Project now offers a comprehensive pathway for victims in their various communities to access empowering tools while supporting alleged perpetrators in finding proper accountability.

Stigmas, being rooted in ignorance, isolate victims by breaking connections. We are breaking stigmas by shining light on the taboo subject of primary and Double Abuse. 

The MEND Project seeks to educate, equip, and restore those impacted by Primary and Double Abuse.

We operate under the following Biblical principle:

We seek to boldly expose the hidden issues of Primary and Double Abuse in our culture, and bring them into the light so that we do no further harm to victims. With this as our guide we hold these four core values sacred:

WHY KINTSUGI?

We take our inspiration from the Japanese art of Kintsugi, which literally means GOLDEN REPAIR. The idea behind this stunning work is MENDing the cracks of broken pottery with precious metals, like gold, making the ordinary piece of pottery even more valuable and beautiful. The MEND Project seeks to bring about healing in the repair processes for survivors of Primary and Double Abuse resulting in a restored and beautiful creation.