Education is the first step toward gaining the clarity needed to recognize abuse, empower those affected, and encourage others to find safe spaces to share their stories.
There are several compelling reasons to read books about abuse, especially emotional abuse books:
Many books about abuse offer personal stories, insights, and valuable information. These resources can be beneficial to those affected by abuse and their responders.
Here are some excellent resources to begin with yourself or to share with those who are experiencing abuse or with responders in your life:
“Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft
Lundy Bancroft, who has extensive experience working with abusive men, uses his expertise to help women understand the thought patterns of abusers. Why Does He Do That is a valuable tool for recognizing how abusers control or devalue others, empowering women to leave abusive relationships. Bancroft delves into the fact that the blame for abuse lies not with the victim but with the abuser’s learned behaviors, upbringing, and ingrained values that often prioritize men over women. When dealing with covert emotional abuse, this book is an essential resource.
“Invisible Chains: Overcoming Coercive Control in Your Intimate Relationship” by Lisa Aronson Fontes
Dr. Lisa Aronson Fontes draws on her personal and professional experience to offer hope and guidance for recognizing various forms of controlling behavior. Invisible Chains is particularly useful for responders, helping them become more aware of patterns of jealousy, abuse, and control so they can support friends and family. It also provides resources and actionable steps for escaping unhealthy relationships.
Created to Thrive: Cultivating Abuse-Free Faith Communities
Created to Thrive is a vital resource for building faith communities that are free from abuse. It offers practical guidance for fostering environments where survivors can heal and thrive.
And More…!
These resources are just a glimpse of the many insightful books about abuse available. Reading these books may be the first step toward recognizing a relationship as abusive or realizing that someone they know is experiencing abuse.
Stay tuned for Annette Oltmans’ upcoming book on Covert Emotional Abuse and Double Abuse®. We will let you know when it becomes available!
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