Struggling With a Conflicted Relationship?
End the Relational Stress and Start Healing with Our Proven Program
Our students often tell us they feel confused…
that no matter how much effort they put into their relationship, it never gets easier. And over time, they — begin to worry that they’re crazy, it’s their fault, and they’re not normal.
But they ARE normal…they’re reacting normally in a repeatedly stressful environment.
Relationship dynamics feel like they swing from healthy and happy to, without realizing it, covert or hidden beneath-the-surface emotional abuse. One of the most significant challenges people face is not being able to see where they actually are on the “conflict continuum.”
Many of our students have revealed that they had no idea how far to the unhealthy side of the continuum they had slid. The patterns of conflict had become their new “normal,” and they lost hope feeling trapped.
Finding Clarity and Healing in Difficult, Confusing, Stressful or Abusive Relationships
Coming soon, Join MEND Founder Annette Oltmans for a unique online 4-session training course and learn how to make sense of conflicted and confusing relationships.
Enter your information below to get notified of our next open enrollment.
Note: All workshop recordings (along with the 65 other lessons in course materials) are archived to view anytime with on-demand access for life.
We additionally have scholarship opportunities. Join the waitlist by entering your email to be notified when these open up as well!
Finding clarity is a critical step in the healing process.
Because you can’t fix something if you don’t know what’s broken.
However, identifying and using the proper language to name relationship conflict patterns provides reference points and clarity. So, when you understand WHY you’ve always felt something was wrong with your relationship but couldn’t explain it, you can take steps toward transformation.
And being able to define the covert problems is one of the first steps we will help you accomplish in this series.
And the best part?
When victims, survivors, and allies have effective tools and strategies, more people experiencing harm can repair (or if necessary, confidently escape) damaging environments and begin the healing process.
The interactive workshops in this 4-week online training course will help you to establish connections and support, digging deep into various covert behaviors that cause conflict and confusion in relationships.
In addition, you will receive ample opportunity to have your unique situation’s questions answered during the weekly workshops which are held in a confidential webinar format to protect your anonymity.
The course platform will likewise house short videos and printable resources for supplemental information to help explain and clarify the ideas and thoughts that emerge from working through the weekly workshops.
And remember:
All workshop recordings and materials are taught by a personable, knowledgeable, and deeply caring team and archived for on-demand access for life.
And, yes…downloadable tools and resources can be used for personal clarity and healing as well as shared with friends, families, and other allies.
Now that I understand, I have a new outlook of my own behavior & a better ability to set healthier boundaries. Thank you for putting this educational information available for those who truly needed it & benefit from it.
-MEND Student
My brain has been so compromised from ongoing stress and confusion but resolving the confusion has started healing that I have been praying for so much. I think God may have connected me to you to make this connection to Mend Project information. I am so grateful.
– Alison, a survivor
“The missing puzzle piece. M3ND is providing the education, guidance, and resources to empower individuals to properly respond.”
– Jennifer Ponce
Director, California Partnership to End Domestic Violence
Find the information and tools needed to find hope, end the cycle of confusion, and gain steps towards recovery and well-being.
Note:
We additionally have scholarship opportunities and you can apply for a scholarship by clicking here.
We look forward to connecting with you at the workshops!
Annette and The MEND Project Team