Secondary abuse is when victims of abuse are inadvertently or intentionally mistreated by the people they trusted with their story. In this post, we're
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Secondary abuse is when victims of abuse are inadvertently or intentionally mistreated by the people they trusted with their story. In this post, we're
Have you ever asked your partner to stop doing something you’re uncomfortable with? For example, he won’t stop photographing you in your bathing suit.
Abuse is so confusing it can be hard to put into words. What seems like a simple conflict to work through can become muddled
Does your partner think an apology will resolve the relational stress and confusion you’re experiencing? Or do they think their apology is enough to
For couples experiencing relationship issues that they can’t seem to solve on their own, seeking marital or couples counseling is often considered the next
At some point, you will likely have the opportunity to confront a person about their abusive personality and behavior. Whether the abuser is a
We naturally talk about female victims of abuse, but men are abused by their partners as well. It’s just not talked about as much.
Have you ever found yourself in a heated argument with your partner, only to emerge feeling bewildered as they deftly justify their actions, leaving
We are proud to share the powerful testimony of a strong survivor who was sexually assaulted in a place meant to facilitate relaxation and
Practicing self-love is difficult for many of us, but it can be especially challenging for abuse survivors. People who have gone through any abuse
Are you in a relationship with someone who dismisses, ignores, or downplays your thoughts, feelings, and experiences? If yes, you may be experiencing a
Is lying abuse? The answer is yes. Lying is emotional abuse. And in today’s article, we are going to show you: How lying is
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I Knew the Signs. Why Didn’t I See Them?
How The MEND Project Has Helped Me The MEND Project has helped me better understand the resources, tools, and skills needed for healing after domestic violence. As a survivor, I have learned that healing is ...
Emotionally Abusive Relationship: Common Behaviors
Abuse in relationships does not always begin with physical abuse or physical violence. Some abusive relationships are marked primarily by verbal abuse and psychological abuse, or emotional abuse. Emotionally abusive behaviors can occur in romantic ...
Autoconocimiento y aceptación radical: un camino hacia la claridad y la sanación
Have you ever reacted strongly to something and wondered afterward, Why did that affect me so much? Or caught yourself apologizing, shutting down, defending yourself, or questioning your own judgment before you even realized what ...
Manipulación en las relaciones: signos, tácticas y cómo reconocer el patrón
Manipulation in relationships means using guilt, fear, confusion, pressure, or other emotional tactics to influence your behavior for someone else’s benefit, rather than communicating honestly and respecting your boundaries. It can be hard to recognize ...
Compasión por el pueblo: Perderse para mantener la paz y encontrar el camino de regreso
Have you ever said yes when everything inside you was saying no? Maybe you agreed because you did not want to disappoint someone. Maybe you stayed quiet to avoid conflict, softened what you really thought ...
El ciclo del abuso: ¿Por qué los momentos difíciles pueden ser tan confosos?
Does your relationship move between periods of warmth and connection and difficult times that seem to keep returning? Perhaps things feel good for a while. You feel close to your partner and hopeful about your ...
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