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Gaslighting: a toxic form of abuse that is highly misunderstood

UncategorizedBy The M3ND ProjectFebruary 1, 2022Leave a comment

There was a time when I did not know what “Gaslighting” was. It was just a strange-sounding word I heard now and again that I didn’t fully understand. But over time and particularly in recent years, gaslighting has become a term used regularly and, far too often, incorrectly. It seems that when someone disagrees with…

U.S. Makes list of Most Dangerous in the World When It Comes to Violence Against Women

UncategorizedBy The M3ND ProjectNovember 21, 2019Leave a comment

Did you know that the United States is one of the world’s top 10 most dangerous countries for women? The United States shares this spot with countries that permit genital mutilation, acid attacks and arranged child marriages. It was disturbing to see that America is the only Western nation to appear on the list. Why…

Disclaimer: The author of this website, Annette Oltmans, takes responsibility for the presentation of the content of this website. I am not a clinician. I am a researcher and your helpmate. I am not trying to vilify any gender or any person. I am not diagnosing nor am I trying to punish those who harm others. My mission is to identify and clarify the single behaviors or patterns of behaviors that occur when covert abuse is present. Statistically, women are more likely to be the victims and are also more likely to be aware that problems exist, but that is not exclusively so. In the service of all victims and those who harm them, I offer this information.

I am not affiliated with HWP, MyTime Active or The M.E.N.D. program (Mind, Exercise, Nutrition, Do it!).
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