Clarity is the first necessary step toward healing. We educate victims of emotional abuse and domestic violence, particularly Covert Emotional Abuse. We name and define emotionally abusive behaviors, such as gaslighting, retaliation, minimization, deflection and many more. We also expose cultural biases that collude with and support Original Abuse.
We have developed protocols for first responders, teaching healthy ways to interface with victims of emotional abuse, domestic violence and sexual abuse, as well as accountability methods for abusers. These models help to prevent Double Abuse® while promoting clarity, empowerment, accountability and restoration.
We provide written and video curriculum to equip NGO’s, therapists, social workers, universities, faith-based organizations, and other first responders about how to identify signs of abuse, respond to abuse, empower victims, lead abusers toward change, and identify cultural biases that foster Double Abuse®. Our trainings are available in-person or online.
In this video, learn how the golden repair process of Kintsugi art illustrates the M3ND Project’s heart to bring healing to all those who have been harmed. Just as the gold repairs the pottery, making it more beautiful than before it was broken, the M3ND Project seeks to bring healing in the repair processes for survivors of emotional abuse, mental abuse, verbal abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse, spiritual abuse, institutional abuse and other abuses.
I’ve reached out for help and no one WILL believe me. I look like the crazy one.
It is probably the most painful position to find yourself in and one that needs immediate and safe corrective attention. The response you’ve received has made it more difficult to heal.
My significant other does not treat me kindly.
We believe that clarity is the first step to healing. Before you can work on your relationship, it is important to identify the patterns you are experiencing.
I think my couple therapy is making things worse.
If you determine that you may be in an abusive relationship here is some information as to why your couple therapy may be making your situation worse.
I’m A Pastor/Spiritual advisor and need tools to counsel victims of abuse.
We affirm you for seeking help. We encourage every spiritual leader to read the pages on this website, especially so that you understand both the concept and the ramifications of double abuse®.
Someone I know is in a relationship impacted by abuse, what should I do?
We understand that this can be an overwhelming and complex issue. Your friend or family member is in a vulnerable position and should be approached with compassion.