FREE WEBINAR
THE COST OF PEOPLE-PLEASING: LOSING YOURSELF AND FINDING THE WAY BACK
Have you ever said yes while your body, mind, or spirit was quietly saying no?
People-pleasing can look like kindness, peacekeeping, or being “easy to get along with.” Yet, over time, it can slowly disconnect you from your own needs, preferences, boundaries, and voice.
Join us for a free webinar on September 10th at 10 AM PST
Together, we’ll explore how people-pleasing often develops, why saying no can feel so difficult, and how the need for approval can lead to self-abandonment, resentment, exhaustion, and confusion.
In this webinar, you’ll learn:
You will walk away with fresh insight and tools to help propel you into your future—with greater confidence, clarity, and courage!
2026 Webinar Schedule
January 8
10:00 AM PST
February 12
10:00 AM PST
March 19
9:00 AM PST
April 8
10:00 AM PST
May 14
10:00 AM PST
June 11
10:00 AM PST
July 9
10:00 AM PST
August 13
10:00 AM PST
September 10
10:00 AM PST
October 15
10:00 AM PST
November 12
10:00 AM PST
December 10
10:00 AM PST
If you have been in, are currently in, or know someone in a confusing, painful, or potentially abusive relationship, the team and resources at MEND are here for you!
You are NOT alone.
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And for responders, therapists, and allies, our trainings provide skills to enhance your effectiveness in helping people through abuse and the healing process.
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Director, California Partnership to End Domestic Violence
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