Take the Next Step Toward Healing:
Unravel the
Confusion
in Your Relationship

Take the Next Step Towards Healing: Unravel the Confusion in Your Relationship

INTRODUCING OUR ONLINE TRAINING COURSE

This comprehensive, self-paced course is designed to help you understand and heal from difficult, confusing, or abusive relationships.

Led by MEND Founder Annette Oltmans, this course equips you with the tools to help you identify, respond to, and overcome unhealthy relational dynamics. The hope and goal of this course is to help you clarify the underlying issues that cause destructive relationship patterns and lead you on a path of healing, whether you decide to stay or leave.

Are You Conflicted About Your Relationship?

Do you regularly encounter the following dynamics with your partner?

  • Feeling that something is off but can’t pinpoint what it is.
  • You raise a reasonable complaint, concern, or hurt, and your partner is defensive.
  • Your concerns are minimized, and your feelings are often dismissed.
  • You recognize a lack of empathy from your partner toward you.
  • You feel like you are walking on eggshells, fearing any conversation could become a conflict.
  • You’re blamed for the negative emotions your partner feels or for the reactions your partner expresses.
  • Financial decisions are made without you, or your access to resources is restricted.
  • You experience repeated broken promises or apologies and repeat harm without real change or accountability.
  • A diminishing sense of self, where your wants and needs are habitually sidelined.

If any of the above resonates with you, you’re not alone—and this course is designed for you.

End the Relational Stress and Start Healing with Our Proven Program

At The MEND Project, we understand the complexities of these traits and how they can repeatedly cycle in a relationship.

It is challenging to gain insight into the underlying issues causing relationship problems. Our students often reveal that our groundbreaking terminology and teaching provideS the clarity they need to identify the root of what’s causing them harm, releasing them from feeling hopeless and stuck.

We designed this course as a beacon of light on the path from confusion to clarity.

There is hope!

FINDING CLARITY AND HEALING IN DIFFICULT, CONFUSING, OR ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS

This course will empower you to identify the root cause and heal from the relationship chaos.

You’ll gain:

  • Deep insights into unhealthy relationship dynamics.
  • The ability to identify and respond to harmful behavior patterns.
  • Practical tools for self-empowerment.
  • Guidance to start healing.
  • Strategies for self-empowerment.
  • Knowledge to help others on their journey of healing.
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Course Highlights

Foundation for Healing

Module 1

Lay Your Foundation for Healing

  • Uncover subtle tactics used in confusing and difficult relationships.
  • Understand the impact of biases and beliefs that perpetuate conflict.
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Module 2

Recognize the Faulty Beliefs Driving the One Causing Harm

  • Learn the mindset of the one causing harm and the key reasons behind their partner’s confusion
  • Identify support systems and how to discern safe people helpers.
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Module 3

Advocate for Yourself and Find Allies

  • Practical advice on navigating emotional safety and self-advocacy.
  • Strategies for finding your voice and making critical life choices.
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Module 4

Embark on the Healing Journey

  • Explore the intersection of harm and trauma.
  • Equip yourself with knowledge on PTSD and heal from its impact.

This Course Is Already Changing Lives

I have a long battle ahead of me, but I wouldn’t even be on this road without you. Your course truly changed my life. It’s been a year since I took it, and I had all that time to let the material actually breathe life into my body.

Kristi, a survivor

The missing puzzle piece. MEND is providing the education, guidance, and resources to empower individuals to properly respond.

Jennifer Khalifa

My brain has been so compromised from ongoing stress and confusion, but resolving the confusion has started healing that I have been praying for so much. I think God may have connected me to you to make this connection to Mend Project information. I am so grateful.

Alison, a survivor

WHAT'S INCLUDED

  • Online Access to in-depth written curriculum materials on the nature of abuse and how to respond
  • Recorded Workshops with our Founder, Annette Oltmans
  • Access to MEND Webinar, “When Victims Respond. Is It Abuse?”
  • Downloadable resources to help foster your growth and healing

This course is more than lessons and definitions. It’s a decisive step towards the life you deserve. 

Join us and step into your healing journey.

Do you need financial assistance to cover the cost of this course?

Scholarships may be available.


We are committed to making this transformative information accessible to everyone. To achieve this, we have established a scholarship program funded by our generous donors. This program offers you the opportunity to have the course fee waived.

To explore your eligibility, please click here to complete our straightforward application form.

Applications are reviewed on the first Wednesday of each month, and the number of scholarships we can offer is limited. We will notify you of our decision by email within a week of reviewing your application. As always, we encourage you to seek support from your church, friends, or family members to help cover the course cost if you are eager to start right away.

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