FREE Training and
Information You Need to
Resolve High-Conflict Relationship Problems!

Live workshops, archived classes, and downloadable resources give you all the information you (or others) need to begin the healing process.

If you have been in, are currently in, or know someone in a high-conflict or potentially abusive relationship, the folks and resources at MEND are here for you!

You are NOT alone. Browse through our workshops and resources below and feel free to contact us with any questions.

And for responders, therapists, and allies, our trainings provide skills to enhance your effectiveness in helping people through abuse and the healing process.

Break Free from the Maze: Find Clarity and Healing in Confusing Relationships. To learn more about this course from MEND, click here.

The missing puzzle piece. M3ND is providing the education, guidance, and resources to empower individuals to properly respond.

Jennifer Ponce

Director, California Partnership to End Domestic Violence

“Now that I understand, I have a new outlook of my own behavior & a better ability to set healthier boundaries. Thank you for putting this educational information available for those who truly needed it & benefit from it.”

MEND Student


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upcoming programs

Spotlight on Coercive Control: Empowering Parents and Children in Coercive Control Situations 

Join MEND for a FREE webinar on coercive control, a serious, but often difficult to identify, form of psychological abuse. Coercive control can seriously affect families, specifically relationships between parents and their children, as children are often used as tools for manipulation in cases of coercive control. Learn how to navigate coercive control situations, and why addressing this kind of abuse is important for you and your children.

In this workshop, you will learn:

  • What coercive control is and why it is difficult to recognize.
  • How coercive control dynamics among parental figures can affect children.
  • How to navigate relationships with your children when you are experiencing coercive control.
  • How to deal with coercive control and rebuild your relationships in its aftermath.

Join us for an enlightening webinar that can empower you to recognize and address the abusive behaviors that are common in coercive control situations.



10:00 AM — 11:00 AM PST

mend programs

  • Provide live lessons that establish connections and support
  • Dig deep. Our unique approach uncovers the various covert behaviors that are abusive – with videos and PDF’s describing them
  • Present material for people with a variety of learning styles (reading, listening, speaking)
  • Teach skills with a personable, knowledgeable, and deeply caring team
  • Provide FREE downloadable tools and resources that participants can use for their own clarity and healing and share with friends, families and other allies.


I listened to Annette speak about covert abuse…and hung on every word that she spoke. To have someone put into words exactly what I am experiences is worth everything. I may listen to it over and over to remind myself (when things are kicked under the rug repeatedly) what I am really enduring. I am coming out of the fog. It has taken much time. . . . Thank you, Annette for helping other women! God bless you.”

Stephanie, Survivor

Strews Inc.

Relevant, organized, and up-to-date. MEND teaches you what you need to know to bring hope and healing in someone’s life.

Dr. Ramona Probasco PsyD, MFT, NCC

The MEND Project’s training is invaluable to any organization attempting to pursue justice and mercy by addressing systemic structures of abuse.

Jack West

Care and Recovery Pastor, Mariners Church


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