This blog was written for us by Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a researcher, educator, and expert in coercive control and its impact on children and adult
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How Has The MEND Project Helped You? I was looking for websites which validate the experiences of parents who have gone through hell via
When you’ve lived in a confusing, difficult, or abusive relationship, boundaries can feel challenging and even impossible to set. Many survivors spend years coping,
The phrase detaching with love is a concept rooted in setting healthy boundaries within relationships, especially where abuse has been present. It’s about maintaining
“I hope you heal from things no one ever apologized for.” This phrase resonates deeply for survivors of emotional abuse, coercive control, and any
The MEND Project is here for you. When you’re in a difficult, confusing, or abusive relationship, one of the most overwhelming challenges is finding
Abuse in relationships can take many different forms, some subtle and hidden, while others are overt. One of the most confusing and painful tactics
At The MEND Project, we often hear stories from survivors whose emotional pain was mislabeled as abnormal behavior or unhealthy behavior. This experience has
Emotional abuse, especially when covert or hidden, can be difficult to name and identify. This self-assessment quiz is designed to help uncover subtle relational
How has MEND helped you? I finally understand what happened to me!I not just gained clarity about what I experienced, I understand what happened
My name is Brian, and I just finished the self-paced course: Finding Clarity and Healing in Difficult, Confusing, or Abusive Relationships. I am so thankful
Through her courage and resilience, Kathy offers an eye-opening story of emotional abuse that occurred over the course of her marriage. Her journey speaks
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What No One Tells Protective Parents About Family Court
This blog was written for us by Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a researcher, educator, and expert in coercive control and its impact on children and adult survivors. You went into family court expecting it to see what ...
From Trauma to Triumph: My Journey Through Abuse and Injustice
How Has The MEND Project Helped You? I was looking for websites which validate the experiences of parents who have gone through hell via the family court system. I found yours, which offers an opportunity ...
Boundaries in Abusive Relationships: Learning to Care for Yourself
When you’ve lived in a confusing, difficult, or abusive relationship, boundaries can feel challenging and even impossible to set. Many survivors spend years coping, adapting, and accommodating, twisting themselves into knots, hoping that if they ...
Detaching With Love: A Practical Guide for Emotional Well-Being
The phrase detaching with love is a concept rooted in setting healthy boundaries within relationships, especially where abuse has been present. It’s about maintaining compassion and kindness while emotionally separating from another person's problems, allowing ...
The Truth About Forgiveness and Healing From Abuse
“I hope you heal from things no one ever apologized for.” This phrase resonates deeply for survivors of emotional abuse, coercive control, and any harmful relationship. It acknowledges a reality far too common: many people ...
Your Guide to MEND’s Resources for Clarity and Healing
The MEND Project is here for you. When you’re in a difficult, confusing, or abusive relationship, one of the most overwhelming challenges is finding the words to describe what you are experiencing. At The MEND ...
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