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SCAPEGOATING: WHY IT HAPPENS AND HOW TO HEAL 

Join us on December 11, 2025 for our webinar on Scapegoating: Why It Happens and How to Heal.

If you've been unfairly blamed, accused, labeled unjustly, called “the problem,” or wrongly held accountable, especially by those closest to you—this live webinar is for you!

Together, we’ll unpack:

  • What scapegoating is and how it’s used to manipulate and confuse you
  • How families use scapegoating
  • Breaking free from the role and moving forward with strength and clarity

We hope to see you on December 11, 2025, at 10:00 AM PST.
To register and receive the recording replay, enter your name and email below:

If you have been in, are currently in, or know someone in a confusing, painful, or potentially abusive relationship, the team and resources at MEND are here for you! 

You are NOT alone.

Browse through our workshops and resources below and feel free to contact us with any questions.

And for responders, therapists, and allies, our trainings provide skills to enhance your effectiveness in helping people through abuse and the healing process.

The missing puzzle piece. MEND is providing the education, guidance, and resources to empower individuals to properly respond.

Jennifer KHALIFA

Director, California Partnership to End Domestic Violence

The MEND Project is my go-to resource for what I am dealing with in my relationships. There are so few people who truly understand covert emotional abuse, but this community does. 

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What Others Are Saying…

I listened to Annette speak about covert abuse and hung on every word that she spoke. To have someone put into words exactly what I am experiencing is worth everything. Thank you, Annette, for helping other women! God bless you.

Stephanie

Strews Inc.

Relevant, organized, and up-to-date. MEND teaches you what you need to know to bring hope and healing in someone’s life.

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The MEND Project’s training is invaluable to any organization attempting to pursue justice and mercy by addressing systemic structures of abuse.

Jack West

Care and Recovery Pastor, Mariners Church

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Here’s a partial list of the workshop recordings and downloadable resources you will get immediate access to:

Here’s a partial list of the workshop recordings and downloadable resources you will get immediate access to:

  • Models for Responding to Victims and The One Causing Harm
  • What to Do When Your Partner is Treating You Unkindly
  • No One Believes Me
  • What is Double Abuse?
  • Should I Stay or Should I Go?
  • Is Couples Therapy Making It Worse
  • Tools for Pastors