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The Mend Project

Educate. Prevent. Restore.

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Responding to Abuse
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About
- Contact
- Our History
- Our Team
- News
Victims + Survivors
Responding to Abuse
Training + Curriculum
Get Involved

Our Healing Model of Compassion for Preventing Double Abuse

The Compassion Model supports healing. The Harmful Response paralyzes progress and escalates trauma.

STORIES OF HEALING

Escaping Winter: A Wife’s Manifesto by R.L. Newey
December 12, 2019
When the Mask Falls Off: by Yaya
November 7, 2019
Is This Really My Life? by Victoria
July 2, 2019

HELP & INFORMATION

If you are in immediate danger contact the national hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) or call 911.

GET INVOLVED

Thre are four ways you can immediately get involved with the M3ND Project.

Disclaimer: The author of this website, Annette Oltmans, takes responsibility for the presentation of the content of this website. I am not a clinician. I am a researcher and your helpmate. I am not trying to vilify any gender or any person. I am not diagnosing nor am I trying to punish those who harm others. My mission is to identify and clarify the single behaviors or patterns of behaviors that occur when covert abuse is present. Statistically, women are more likely to be the victims and are also more likely to be aware that problems exist, but that is not exclusively so. In the service of all victims and those who harm them, I offer this information.

I am not affiliated with HWP, MyTime Active or The M.E.N.D. program (Mind, Exercise, Nutrition, Do it!).
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