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The MEND Project’s blog offers articles, personal stories, and more to help victims and responders of emotional abuse.

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emotional abuse

Recognizing and Overcoming Emotional Abuse: A Path to Freedom, and Empowerment

Emotional abuse can be difficult to identify, as it often doesn’t leave visible scars. However, its impact on mental and emotional well-being can be

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emotional abuse confusion

How Emotional Abuse Creates a Maze of Confusion

Have you ever been in a conversation where you feel things are getting off-topic or out of control, but you can’t figure out how

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Narcissistic Parents

Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents: What Happens After They Grow Up

The Lasting Impact of Growing Up with a Narcissistic Parent  It’s difficult to fully comprehend the impact of a narcissistic parent on a child.  

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A guide to help you share your story

A Guide to Help You Share Your Story of Abuse

Sharing your story of abuse is a significant step in the healing journey for any survivor. Some prefer to share their story with one

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reactive abuse

Understanding Reactive Abuse: What You Need to Know

Discerning the experiences and stories of two people can be tricky and confusing.  This is especially true when there is a long history of

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Covert Abuse: Identifying Hidden Forms of Emotional Manipulation

What is covert abuse, and what is covert emotional abuse?  “Covert” means “hidden” or “secret.”  Covert abuse involves specific manipulative behavioral tactics that are

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Partial Confession

How Partial Confessions in Relationships May Be Covert Abuse

Labeling “partial confessions” as a term of abuse may be confusing to some people.  How can a partial confession be considered abuse? Isn’t it

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gaslighting

What is Gaslighting? 10 Obvious Clues You’re Being Gaslighted

Most of us are familiar with “Gaslighting,” which is often used loosely in response to many situations within diverse relationship types.  Gaslighting isn’t always

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Victims of Any Age: The Link between Covert Emotional Abuse and Child Abuse

Many images come to mind when we think of child abuse.  Some imagine:  A child in foster care who was abused by their biological

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What it Means When Your Partner Dismisses Your Feelings

Abuse can be subtle and slowly wedge a destructive divide between couples.  Subtle, hidden forms of abuse are called Covert Emotional Abuse (CEA).  Dismissing

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How to Respond to Gaslighting — 5-Top Ways to Confront the Abuse

Recognizing and responding to gaslighting can be a daunting task, but understanding its nuances is the first step towards liberation from its manipulative hold.

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how to know if someone is being abused

How To Know If Someone Is Being Abused | In-Depth Guide

Understanding how to tell if someone is being abused isn't always straightforward. In this guide, we'll walk you through how to identify abuse, how

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What No One Tells Protective Parents About Family Court

This blog was written for us by Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a researcher, educator, and expert in coercive control and its impact on children and adult survivors. You went into family court expecting it to see what ...

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From Trauma to Triumph: My Journey Through Abuse and Injustice

How Has The MEND Project Helped You? I was looking for websites which validate the experiences of parents who have gone through hell via the family court system. I found yours, which offers an opportunity ...

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Boundaries in Abusive Relationships: Learning to Care for Yourself

When you’ve lived in a confusing, difficult, or abusive relationship, boundaries can feel challenging and even impossible to set. Many survivors spend years coping, adapting, and accommodating, twisting themselves into knots, hoping that if they ...

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Detaching With Love: A Practical Guide for Emotional Well-Being

The phrase detaching with love is a concept rooted in setting healthy boundaries within relationships, especially where abuse has been present. It’s about maintaining compassion and kindness while emotionally separating from another person's problems, allowing ...

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The Truth About Forgivness

The Truth About Forgiveness and Healing From Abuse

“I hope you heal from things no one ever apologized for.” This phrase resonates deeply for survivors of emotional abuse, coercive control, and any harmful relationship. It acknowledges a reality far too common: many people ...

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Your Guide to MEND’s Resources for Clarity and Healing

The MEND Project is here for you. When you’re in a difficult, confusing, or abusive relationship, one of the most overwhelming challenges is finding the words to describe what you are experiencing. At The MEND ...

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Disclaimer: The MEND Project is a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. The information on this website and the services we provide are offered for educational purposes in an effort to serve those impacted by abuse. While we are not clinicians, we are committed to research and to helping identify and clarify harmful behaviors and patterns when covert abuse is present. We do not seek to vilify any gender or any person, regardless of race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, nationality, or other identity. © 2026 The MEND Project. All Rights Reserved.

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