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    • Contact
    • Our History
    • Our Team
  • Victims + Survivors
    • You Are Not Crazy
      • List of Unhealthy Behaviors You Might Be Facing
      • I Look Like The Crazy One
    • It’s Not Your Fault
      • Original Abuse
      • Glossary of Terms
      • Couple’s Therapy
      • Should I Stay or Should I Go?
    • You Are Not Alone
  • Responding to Abuse
    • How Can I Know if it’s Abuse?
      • The Victim
      • The Abuser
    • What is My Role?
      • DOUBLE ABUSE®
      • Complex PTSD
      • Prevent PTSD into C-PTSD
      • Note to Faith-Based Organizations
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Category Archives: Stories

Counting the Days: A Letter From Your Victim By: Riley

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Today, we are proud to share the powerful testimony of a strong survivor who was sexually assaulted at a place meant to facilitate relaxation and peace, not trauma and agony. To protect her identity, she self-refers as “Riley” in her story below, although that is not her real name. Because of her abuser’s actions, her…

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I Didn’t See The Signs at First, by Jenni

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Seeing the way my husband disciplined our sons made me realize something was very wrong. By the time I knew we had to leave, I was so trapped in his lies I didn’t see a way out.

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Escaping Winter: A Wife’s Manifesto by R.L. Newey

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This time of year – Christmas, Hanukkah, New Year’s – can be so magnificent. It is a time to gather with family and friends to show and receive love, connection and support. It’s a time of celebration – of faith, new beginnings, life. Yet, for many men, women, and children, this time of year is…

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When the Mask Falls Off: by Yaya

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My fairy tale romance fell apart less than a year into our relationship, but I married him anyway. After suffering abuse for almost a decade, I found freedom in an unexpected place.

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Is This Really My Life? by Victoria

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My heart stopped. I knew my former husband was either dead or again had robbed and ended up in jail. Hands shaking, heart thumping, I made the awful phone call.

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Wounds Deeper Than Bruises, by Jessica

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My husband’s words hurt worse than fists. I endured constant emotional abuse until I finally saw through him, when he left me at my father’s funeral.

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From Broken to Brave, by Melanie

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My husband’s jealousy and porn addiction quickly spiraled out of control, but when I turned to counselors and church for help, I was met with derision.

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Disclaimer: The author of this website, The M3ND Project and its founder, Annette Oltmans, takes responsibility for the presentation of the content of this website. We are not clinicians, but are researchers and desire to help you. We are not trying to vilify any gender, or any person, regardless of race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, nationality etc. Our mission is to identify and clarify the single behaviors or patterns of behaviors that occur when covert abuse is present. The material on this website and the services our nonprofit offers are offered to in an effort to serve all victims of abuse. © 2022 The MEND Project. All Rights Reserved.

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