Belittling within an abusive relationship happens slowly over time. If it happened outright and upfront, the victim would be more likely to confront it
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There’s been significant debate and public discussion about the term ‘mutual abuse,’ which has been used to conclude that some situations of domestic violence,
It is difficult to understand overt versus covert behaviors and how each plays out within relationships. Yet understanding is the key to overcoming. Covert behaviors
It may seem implausible that an “institution” or “organization” can abuse people. But the truth is that it can and does happen. In this article, you’re
In this brave Emotional Abuse Survivor Story by Michelle (not her real name), she shares the details of her journey being married to a
The terms “narcissist” and “gaslighting” are widely used in our culture, but they are rarely understood. Narcissistic gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse
In this blog, Rowe (not her real name) shares her story of domestic violence and abuse and how it negatively impacted her life. Through
For many, abuse is a well-kept secret. This was true for “Brigid” who grew up watching her mother experience constant verbal, emotional, and mental abuse
Lyn’s story demonstrates beautifully the path from victim, to survivor, to heroine. Please remember, it is not always easy to hear about the abuse
We hear of and see Institutional Abuse happening over and over again, notably and repeatedly within churches across our country. One of the challenges
'There will be joy in the morning,’ she said as she prayed for me one day. 'Joy in the morning.' After the pain, hurt,
The vast majority of parents want to parent well. If they knew that their words or actions were harming their children or even causing
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Brian’s Story: Finding Freedom After 23 Years of Marriage
My name is Brian, and I just finished the self-paced course: Finding Clarity and Healing in Difficult, Confusing, or Abusive Relationships. I am so thankful I found this material. Reading and listening to the testimonies and ...
Kathy’s Story: Money Was a Constant Source of Tension
Through her courage and resilience, Kathy offers an eye-opening story of emotional abuse that occurred over the course of her marriage. Her journey speaks to the quiet struggles that often go unnoticed and unspoken, especially when ...
Recognizing and Overcoming Emotional Abuse: A Path to Freedom, and Empowerment
Emotional abuse can be difficult to identify, as it often doesn’t leave visible scars. However, its impact on mental and emotional well-being can be profound and lasting.In this guide, we’ll break down the complexities of ...
How Emotional Abuse Creates a Maze of Confusion
Have you ever been in a conversation where you feel things are getting off-topic or out of control, but you can’t figure out how it happened or why? Or, maybe you’ve attempted to raise a ...
Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents: What Happens After They Grow Up
The Lasting Impact of Growing Up with a Narcissistic Parent It’s difficult to fully comprehend the impact of a narcissistic parent on a child. Children of narcissistic parents experience recurring trauma that leads to interrupted brain development ...
How to Share Your Story of Abuse and How it Helps You to Heal
Sharing your story—publicly or privately—is a significant step in the healing journey for any survivor. Some prefer to share their story with one or two trusted people. Others may want to share it with groups of ...
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