Today, we are sharing a survivor story of emotional abuse from a brave woman, named Crystal (a pseudonym to protect her privacy.) In this
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Today, we are sharing a survivor story of emotional abuse from a brave woman, named Crystal (a pseudonym to protect her privacy.) In this
In this story, we are proud to introduce you to a brave, powerful woman named Nicole. She experienced the unfathomable as a child and
In this story of emotional abuse, you’re going to learn: How a wife in an emotionally abusive relationship feels about her husband About how
You’ve been the victim of abuse—and now, you’re wondering if it was actually your fault. You’ve spent hours, days, weeks—maybe even years tipping back
In this survivor of domestic violence story written by a courageous young woman who we will call Abigail, you’ll learn about: The craziness that
A common question victims of domestic abuse ask is whether or not an abuser can change. In this article, we will explore this question
If you have experienced any form of emotional abuse – whether from a family member, friend, or romantic partner – it can be hard
Spiritual abuse, or religious abuse, is one of the most damaging forms of psychological coercion, which can take years before a person fully heals
When abuse is present in a relationship, a trauma bond can form, making it difficult, and seemingly impossible, to stay or leave the harmful
If you are in an abusive relationship, the situation can become so dangerous that leaving becomes not just necessary but urgent for your safety.
If you have witnessed a friend or family member in an abusive relationship, you likely were concerned for their safety and maybe even their
How to Choose an Individual or Relationship Therapist And Identify Red Flags Indicating It’s Time to Exit Let’s begin with a few preliminary points
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Finding the Strength to Leave an Abusive Relationship
How The MEND Project Has Helped Me The MEND Project has given me a place where I can express my deepest traumas and assist others who are going through or have been through circumstances and ...
Oversharing: Finding Healing Through Self-Love
We all long for connection. To be seen, heard, and understood is part of being human. Yet sometimes the way we share leaves us feeling unsettled, ashamed, or even more isolated. Those feelings often happen ...
Becoming the Parent Your Child Needs After Abuse and Trauma
This blog was written for us by Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a researcher, educator, and expert in coercive control and its impact on children and adult survivors. You know that feeling when you hear the door open. ...
What No One Tells Protective Parents About Family Court
This blog was written for us by Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a researcher, educator, and expert in coercive control and its impact on children and adult survivors. You went into family court expecting it to see what ...

From Trauma to Triumph: My Journey Through Abuse and Injustice
How Has The MEND Project Helped You? I was looking for websites which validate the experiences of parents who have gone through hell via the family court system. I found yours, which offers an opportunity ...
Boundaries in Abusive Relationships: Learning to Care for Yourself
When you’ve lived in a confusing, difficult, or abusive relationship, boundaries can feel challenging and even impossible to set. Many survivors spend years coping, adapting, and accommodating, twisting themselves into knots, hoping that if they ...
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