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The MEND Project’s blog offers articles, personal stories, and more to help victims and responders of emotional abuse.

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Narcissistic Parents

Unmasking the Impact of Narcissistic Parents on their Children

It can be challenging to grasp the significant impact caused by narcissistic parents. It has longstanding effects that often linger into adulthood, leading to

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Teen Dating Violence

Teen Dating Violence: Is Your Teen Experiencing Abuse?

Abuse does not discriminate. It can happen to anyone.  Children, teens, adults and the elderly all can be victims of abuse.  Violence happens in

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Accountability Process for Abusers

Holding Abusers Accountable While Maintaining Safety For Victims: The Accountability Model of Courage

Abuse is always a choice, and it is never the victim’s fault. This is essential for anyone to know who is responding to or

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Excitement Quickly Turned Into Confusion

Excitement Quickly Turned Into Confusion: By Tobey

We are grateful to our friend “Tobey” for sharing her story about the workplace abuse she experienced. Many of us know what it feels

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Gaslighting Overused

Gaslighting is Often Misused: The Overuse of Gaslighting Explained

Most people are familiar with the term “gaslighting,” but how many really know what it means?  Our guess is relatively few do.  The term

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survivor-story-of-control-and-manipulation

Katy’s Story of Control and Manipulation from Her Husband

Meet Katy.  Katy was born in Cleveland, OH. and was raised in a loving, conservative Christian home. When she was 22, she met and

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Healing from a Covert Narcissist

Healing From a Covert Narcissist: By Michelle

We are thankful for Michelle’s bravery in sharing her story of healing from abuse by a covert narcissist. In this abuse survivor story, you’ll

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Love-Bombed: A Story of Surviving

In this story, Vesper (not her real name) met her boyfriend in another state. They had a fast beginning to their relationship when she

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When the Mask Falls Off

When the Mask Falls Off: By Yaya

In this survival story of emotional abuse, you’re going to learn about Yaya and her relationship/marriage with a narcissist who kept his abusive, narcissistic

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The Wreckage He Left Behind: Crystal’s Story

Today, we are sharing a survivor story of emotional abuse from a brave woman, named Crystal (a pseudonym to protect her privacy.)  In this

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A ‘Normal-Life’ Used to Sound Impossible

Nicole’s Life Story of Abuse, Trauma, Hope and Healing

In this story, we are proud to introduce you to a brave, powerful woman named Nicole. She experienced the unfathomable as a child and

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A Wife’s Manifesto

A Wife’s Manifesto by R.L. Newey

In this story of emotional abuse, you’re going to learn:  How a wife in an emotionally abusive relationship feels about her husband  About how

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I Knew the Signs. Why Didn’t I See Them?

How The MEND Project Has Helped Me The MEND Project has helped me better understand the resources, tools, and skills needed for healing after domestic violence. As a survivor, I have learned that healing is ...

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Emotionally Abusive Relationship: Common Behaviors

Abuse in relationships does not always begin with physical abuse or physical violence. Some abusive relationships are marked primarily by verbal abuse and psychological abuse, or emotional abuse. Emotionally abusive behaviors can occur in romantic ...

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Self-Awareness and Radical Acceptance: A Path Toward Clarity and Healing

Have you ever reacted strongly to something and wondered afterward, Why did that affect me so much? Or caught yourself apologizing, shutting down, defending yourself, or questioning your own judgment before you even realized what ...

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Manipulation in Relationships: Signs, Tactics, and How to Recognize the Pattern

Manipulation in relationships means using guilt, fear, confusion, pressure, or other emotional tactics to influence your behavior for someone else’s benefit, rather than communicating honestly and respecting your boundaries. It can be hard to recognize ...

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People-Pleasing: Losing Yourself to Keep the Peace and Finding Your Way Back

Have you ever said yes when everything inside you was saying no? Maybe you agreed because you did not want to disappoint someone. Maybe you stayed quiet to avoid conflict, softened what you really thought ...

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The Cycle of Abuse: Why the Bad Times Can Be So Confusing

Does your relationship move between periods of warmth and connection and difficult times that seem to keep returning? Perhaps things feel good for a while. You feel close to your partner and hopeful about your ...

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