Often, people do not think of ‘unkindness’ as a sign of abuse. But it can be. And it’s crucial to learn not only how
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When Jenni met her husband, she thought that he was kind and different. But as they got more serious and eventually married, his abusive
It can be challenging to grasp the significant impact caused by narcissistic parents. It has longstanding effects that often linger into adulthood, leading to
Abuse does not discriminate. It can happen to anyone. Children, teens, adults and the elderly all can be victims of abuse. Violence happens in intimate partnerships,
Abuse is always a choice, and it is never the victim’s fault. This is essential for anyone to know who is responding to or
We are grateful to our friend “Tobey” for sharing her story about the workplace abuse she experienced. Many of us know what it feels
Most people are familiar with the term “gaslighting,” but how many really know what it means? Our guess is relatively few do. The term gaslighting is
Meet Katy. Katy was born in Cleveland, OH. and was raised in a loving, conservative Christian home. When she was 22, she met and fell
We are thankful for Michelle’s bravery in sharing her story of healing from abuse by a covert narcissist.In this abuse survivor story, you’ll gain
In this story, Vesper (not her real name) met her boyfriend in another state. They had a fast beginning to their relationship when she
In this survival story of emotional abuse, you’re going to learn about Yaya and her relationship/marriage with a narcissist who kept his abusive, narcissistic
Today, we are sharing a survivor story of emotional abuse from a brave woman, named Crystal (a pseudonym to protect her privacy.) In this story,
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Brian’s Story: Finding Freedom After 23 Years of Marriage
My name is Brian, and I just finished the self-paced course: Finding Clarity and Healing in Difficult, Confusing, or Abusive Relationships. I am so thankful I found this material. Reading and listening to the testimonies and ...
Kathy’s Story: Money Was a Constant Source of Tension
Through her courage and resilience, Kathy offers an eye-opening story of emotional abuse that occurred over the course of her marriage. Her journey speaks to the quiet struggles that often go unnoticed and unspoken, especially when ...
Recognizing and Overcoming Emotional Abuse: A Path to Freedom, and Empowerment
Emotional abuse can be difficult to identify, as it often doesn’t leave visible scars. However, its impact on mental and emotional well-being can be profound and lasting.In this guide, we’ll break down the complexities of ...
How Emotional Abuse Creates a Maze of Confusion
Have you ever been in a conversation where you feel things are getting off-topic or out of control, but you can’t figure out how it happened or why? Or, maybe you’ve attempted to raise a ...
Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents: What Happens After They Grow Up
The Lasting Impact of Growing Up with a Narcissistic Parent It’s difficult to fully comprehend the impact of a narcissistic parent on a child. Children of narcissistic parents experience recurring trauma that leads to interrupted brain development ...
How to Share Your Story of Abuse and How it Helps You to Heal
Sharing your story—publicly or privately—is a significant step in the healing journey for any survivor. Some prefer to share their story with one or two trusted people. Others may want to share it with groups of ...
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