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This is the story of one child's journey through the foster care system. As you read the experiences of this child who survived abuse,
Secondary abuse is when victims of abuse are inadvertently or intentionally mistreated by the people they trusted with their story. In this post, we're
Have you ever asked your partner to stop doing something you’re uncomfortable with? For example, he won’t stop photographing you in your bathing suit.
Abuse is so confusing it can be hard to put into words. What seems like a simple conflict to work through can become muddled
Does your partner think an apology will resolve the relational stress and confusion you’re experiencing? Or do they think their apology is enough to
For couples experiencing relationship issues that they can’t seem to solve on their own, seeking marital or couples counseling is often considered the next
At some point, you will likely have the opportunity to confront a person about their abusive personality and behavior. Whether the abuser is a
We naturally talk about female victims of abuse, but men are abused by their partners as well. It’s just not talked about as much.
Have you ever found yourself in a heated argument with your partner, only to emerge feeling bewildered as they deftly justify their actions, leaving
We are proud to share the powerful testimony of a strong survivor who was sexually assaulted in a place meant to facilitate relaxation and
Practicing self-love is difficult for many of us, but it can be especially challenging for abuse survivors. People who have gone through any abuse
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Becoming the Parent Your Child Needs After Abuse and Trauma
This blog was written for us by Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a researcher, educator, and expert in coercive control and its impact on children and adult survivors. You know that feeling when you hear the door open. ...
What No One Tells Protective Parents About Family Court
This blog was written for us by Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a researcher, educator, and expert in coercive control and its impact on children and adult survivors. You went into family court expecting it to see what ...
From Trauma to Triumph: My Journey Through Abuse and Injustice
How Has The MEND Project Helped You? I was looking for websites which validate the experiences of parents who have gone through hell via the family court system. I found yours, which offers an opportunity ...
Boundaries in Abusive Relationships: Learning to Care for Yourself
When you’ve lived in a confusing, difficult, or abusive relationship, boundaries can feel challenging and even impossible to set. Many survivors spend years coping, adapting, and accommodating, twisting themselves into knots, hoping that if they ...
Detaching With Love: A Practical Guide for Emotional Well-Being
The phrase detaching with love is a concept rooted in setting healthy boundaries within relationships, especially where abuse has been present. It’s about maintaining compassion and kindness while emotionally separating from another person's problems, allowing ...
The Truth About Forgiveness and Healing From Abuse
“I hope you heal from things no one ever apologized for.” This phrase resonates deeply for survivors of emotional abuse, coercive control, and any harmful relationship. It acknowledges a reality far too common: many people ...
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